Funeral Home Services After Losing a Loved One Suddenly

March 15, 2021

Losing a loved one and planning a service at a funeral home in Morrison, IL is always hard, but it’s especially challenging when that loss is sudden and unexpected.  

 

How can you get through a sudden, unexpected pain and loss? While everyone’s grief journey is different in both presentation and length and no one can truly understand someone else’s pain, there are certain thing you can do to make a sudden bereavement easier.  

 

Here are some helpful tips for dealing with the sudden death of a loved one: 

  1. Accept Help – It’s natural for people to want to help when someone they know is going through a loss. While you might not feel up to interacting with others, it’s probably true that you will need that help. From meals and assistance with household chores to help planning services, help is necessary when you’re going through a loss. Don’t be embarrassed or afraid to accept it. Also, don’t be embarrassed to seek out help when you need it. 
  2. Spend Time with Others – It can be so easy to withdraw from friends, coworkers and family after going through a loss. However, talking and spending time with other people can be a big help. Not only is being around other people comforting, but it can help make your grief more manageable. It does this through allowing you to share your feelings which in turn can help you come to terms with your loss. It also accomplishes this by giving you space to reminisce and receive emotional support.  
  3. Understand That it Will Be Difficult – Everyone who experiences a sudden loss will most likely also experience a whirlwind of emotions from anger and shock to disbelief, guilt and sadness. These tough emotions won’t follow a certain timeline as everyone grieves at their own pace. Therefore, it’s important to be prepared to endure difficult feelings for an undetermined amount of time. Being aware of that fact will make dealing with the situation simpler, if not easier.  
  4. Seek Out Counseling – Seeking professional help for dealing with the psychological and physical symptoms of grief is not only often incredibly beneficial but it’s also often necessary. When a loved one dies suddenly, it can be a traumatic experience like getting in a severe car accident or spending time in a war zone. There isn’t shame in a veteran or car accident survivor getting help, so why would there be in someone going through a loss getting help?  
  5. Get Back into Regular Routines – It might seem impossible, but life will go on after you lose a loved one. As tough as it might be, getting back to your everyday routines can help relieve your grief. Go back to work if you feel ready. If not, try and continue your normal morning and evening routines. Hold family dinners, take the kids to school, and don’t be afraid to acknowledge how these routines have changed because of the loss. 

 

Do you want more information on grief or on Morrison, IL funeral homes? Schilling Funeral Home & Cremation is here to help. Call or visit us today to learn more

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